I am happy to report success last night in Jackie's swimming lessons.
As I posted two weeks ago, she did not have a good class, and neither did Anderson - we pulled Anderson out of his class - he was way too old to be playing baby games, did not want to be held , he just wanted to do his own thing.
Jackie - was terrified, so for the second class, we decided to send her with Adam - but this time Adam would be dressed to go into the pool with her. That did not work out so well - I think she got her big toe wet and that is it.
So - last night was class number 3. I took her - drove on those crazy, crappy roads, got into my bathing suit - and got to the pool - and she freaked out.
But there was no way I was going to give up - after battling traffic and bad roads to get there - so we pushed through (we are the only ones that actually came for that class).
Michael, the swimming instructor was trying to tell me how to deal with her, suggesting I leave the pool - let her work it out on her own - but I knew it would be even worse if I did (I did some of my own research on dealing with shy kids).
What we did however, was have her join an older class that had a female swimming instructor - and it worked!
She slowly started to join the class and I slowly started to back away from the class. By the end, I was sitting on a bench - out of the pool and she waved to me.
It was definitely a proud Mommy moment as I was finally able to sit back and watch her.
Let's hope next week starts out better but ends the same way!
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